The Winner - is always part of the answer
The Loser - is always part of the problem
The Winner - always has a program
The Loser - always has an excuse
The Winner - says "Let me do it for you"
The Loser says "That's not my job"
The Winner - sees an answer for every problem
The Loser - sees a problem for every answer
The Winner - sees a green near every sand trap
The Loser - sees two or three sand traps near every green
The Winner - says "It may be difficult but it's possible"
The Loser - says "It may be possible but it's too difficult"
The Winner - sees God in everything and every where
The Loser - sees only a reason to doubt the existence of God
of course to be a real winner you have to be a loser first